What is wrong with the 18-22yr old crowd of ladies! Everyones always telling me how shitty their relationships are, and how they aren’t gunna deal anymore, then what are you waiting for!? I’m not talkin bout little disagreements, I’m talking getting ur hair pulled and smashed into a window, c’mon now… that’s no way to treat a lady
I seen Steve Harvey on Tyra today talking bout his new book Act Like A Lady, Think Like a Man, this guy knows what he’s talking about… If you are having problems finding that special someone he def has some tips for you, the one I liked the best was Make sure he opens ur door, if he doesn’t, you just don’t get in… Buy the book, his views are both funny and true.
I don’t think us young ladies should waste our time (the precious time we have to look stupid, act stupid, be stupid, and not be held accountable) I didn’t make it up I hear it all the time lol! … but don’t waste your time unless you truly believe he’s gunna be there 10, 20, 30 years down the road… If you don’t think so, go be free for a while, if he’s the ultamadim kinda guy I’m sure he’ll still be there later on anyway!… lol…So many women give their best years to men that treat them like crap, u girls know what I mean… and if you don’t u are a very lucky woman.
Relationships change us soo much, we have to decide wether the change is worth it and if we are ready for it…. I have been in a relationship for almost 4 years now, I have never had to deal with cheating, lying, or abuse of any kind, so for u ladies that believe those men aren’t out there, they are, don’t go looking for them let them find you, he’ll come. Watch out for those shy guys, they are easiest to train haha jk, but if they are to shy to ask u out, then i’m sure they won’t be trying to skirt, listen for the badlines, or really anyline, if he has to use a line u can almost guaruntee he’s used it a couple times…. and makes an art of picking up the ladies. Sometimes you can almost tell when a guys trying to make you a notch on his headboard by the first 10 words that come outta his mouth. And to note the obvious, NEVER EVER MEET A MAN IN A BAR!!
Young Ladies, go have fun now, enjoy life (UNLESS you have one of the good ones…and in that case I hope you are enjoying life togther 
) And if you can’t hack that and you need to be with someone, go for a man who’s a bit older…someone who’s past their phases and are ready to be a husband or spouse. If he’s a cheater or a womanbeater throw those 2nd chances out the window!
I hope I havn’t offended anyone I tried to tiptoe over my words.. I’ve just wanted to say this to so many of my friends that are dealing with the worst of the worst because they got in over their heads when Joe Schmo uttered those 3 lying words….
With all that being said… I love you Shawn lol
